The “D” Word

Divorce… It is final, it is finished and my old new last name is officially mine again. It may come as a shock to some but my divorce just became final about a month ago. Shocking only  because reading through my assortment of posts one could probably same assume I was already divorced. It took […]

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You can get through it

You learn a lot when you have to restart your life. At least I did when I had to restart my life 2 years ago. For one thing I was forced to find a strength I didn’t know I had. It’s not easy starting over. Having to move my family, having to rearrange how my family looks, […]

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Fab Friday: Home

If anyone ever did decide to pop in on me while I’m home (and of course no one ever would this isn’t 1995) they would be in for quite a treat. Literally as soon as I walk in the door I get as ugly as possible… gym shorts, t-shirt three sizes too big, hair up […]

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Fab Friday: No

Standing up for yourself doesn’t make you a bad person. Just because you tell someone no doesn’t make you a bad person either. Nice and kind people are allowed to say no. No, you aren’t going to take advantage of me. No, I will not let you treat me like that or talk to me […]

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Uncertainty

Uncertainty. That is my life right now. So much has changed in two short years of my life, it makes my head swirl when I think about it. Almost every aspect of it has changed in some way. Change is hard and painful, but it can be beautiful. I feel I’m in a forever stage of […]

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Fab Friday: Whats twerking anyway

Seriously… This is NOT a joke. I completely and totally plan on embarrassing my daughters with my sick dance moves.  It’s going to be great! It’s totally cool now because they love dancing with me but there will come a day when I will no longer be cool. I’m sure when that day comes I […]

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